Category: Singles Spit Swap
Well! I love being single right now! I'm not looking for a relationship here or anywhere! I feel that being single is the best cause you're not tide down, you're not missing him like crazy, and you can just flirt with any guy and not feel guilty bout it! haha, well, don't know bout all of you, but I would feel guilty if I flirted with guys while in a relationship! haha, I guess I would make a loyal girlfriend!
I don't know! I just love life right now! I guess the reason why I love being single is because my first relationship didn't turn out well! And so I guess I feel that it's best to be single and free, instead of being with someone who causes you pain!
Yes, it's lonely as hell sometimes, and sometimes you wanna belong to someone, but I guess it's the price we gotta pay! haha, well, that's all I gotta say on the subject!
You're not tied down unless you're married. lol
Agree Goldberg. But if you're single because you were hurt, then look for people that won't hurt you. Of course, that's easier said than done, especially when you're young. But that's the learning process you have to go through.
Yup yup!
Yah, healing from a relationship is a timely process. It doesn't happen overnight. Good point though.
Yeah, it's good to be single because nobody wants to be roped in to anything.
Being single is the best!
I love it. I've never had a boyfriend and I'm not looking for one either.
hmm, still glad to be single? from what I hear, you aren't anymore.
"being single is the best cause you're not tide down, you're not missing him like crazy, and you can just flirt with any guy and not feel guilty bout it!"
guess that doesn't have an afect on you anymore... although, it is good to not be single, I also feel that it's also good to be in a relationship.
well things can change you know. if she was single because she was hurt and found someone who she feels she can trust and wont hurt her, that's a good thing for her. besides, you can't chose if you like someone or not.
*chuckles* I have sometimes, in the past, wished I was single while in a relationship just for the fun of it... But having someone is so much better because you get stability and to me, that's all that matters! lol It took a while but I'm glad I'm where I am in life! No man can give me the loving like he can. So I can see why being single is fun but once you've had enough fun, it's nice to settle down. lol And much more full-filling too. Oh and people do change. I certainly did in the past year and a half! haha So what you feel now might differ tomorrow. lol Ray. There will be someone for you someday. Just be patient. haha
Michelle
I think that being single or in a relationship are both good. It depends on who you are and what your personality is. I like being single and I also like being in a relationship--but when you really like someone, you obviously have to mean it. So they both have their advantages and disadvantages. Thanks for bringing up the topic.
RAY! who u talking about?
agreed lory, things can change in time...
so, if you heard that she is not single anymore, ray, things obviously changed.
being single sucks.
I totally agree with the orriginal poster! Being single rocks! I don't really get lonely because I have my close friends to talk to whenever I feel that way. I'm not looking for a relationship simply to have a relationship, or to satisfy some"empty" part of my life. Especially since I found Him in ninth grade, I have purpose without another person. Maybe someday I'll find someone who loves me completely, but I want all or nothing..Haha, is that too picky? lol oh well!
lol no not picky! lol, but now I've found all, and I've got it all, so it's awsome! lol
being single does suck sometimes, but as people have previously said it has it's good side..don't have to answer to anyone or be tied down lol but it gets lonely when you see everyone with someone an their happy. i'll admit sometimes i even get jealous but then you see how hard it could be to be in some relationship and your like "fuck that shit" lol well me anyways hahaha…but it’s gay cuz when I’m close to not being single anymore, the guy turns out to be not what I want…for example this guy who goes to my school likes me but he’s a complete jerk to people, is high all the time lol, and you just know their not for you, you know? or their just playas..lol, but yeah..i think i'm better off single for now, or something..dunno lol..
I love being single, because I can take a new girl home every night from the bar and play the game how many holes can I fill up at once?
hehehe jared, i love you. *thinking of moving to michigan* hehehehe
omg lol
Well, relieved to see someone at least talk about the sex business. There are two parts to being single - the concept of "belonging" to someone is a bit beyond me, but and maybe I should post this to the rant board instead, but, not to minimize the incredible value of good friends, having to do every damn thing yourself sucks big time. This is small in the grand scheme of things, but I love eathing breakfast out. I'm hungry and cranky in the morning and like having someone else plunk a filling breakfast down in front of me, and a real neighborhood diner breakfast is still the best deal in New York, and I like having all the wafts of other people's conversations around me, but then you eat and it's done and you leave. I want that person also, the one who really knows me, sit and share plans for the day together with me, plan together what to do about the problems with the landlord. And I even sleep better if I'm not sleeping alone. Then there's the part about sex. :I almost wrote, well, I wish I could pick up a new girl every night, and then thought about it more seriously and I don't anymore. There was a time when casual sex was fine and maybe it still would be if I could get it, but not as a regular thing. It just seems so tiring trying to figure out from what you can tell in a noisy bar if you even want that person in your home, never mind making sure you remember their name the next morning. And that if is a big if. And how the hell does a blind person manage all that picking up? And now that I'm a parent even if I could bring home a new woman every night and even if I didn't have a bit of judgement within me that says it's not really right and therefore not the example I want to set, well, it just isn't even a good idea because it's not just my safety and security at issue anymore. And as far as I'm concerned there's an ocean of difference between getting myself off and being with someone I'm really hot for.it's part of our wiring as humans. Since I seem to keep focusing on how old I am lately, the desire doesn't go away with age and thinking about it as something I just won't have if I live another 50 years is pretty depressing. well, not sure why I started this but I'm off to be alone in my kitchen with my now cold cup of coffee.
i'm glad to be single. as far as the sex, casual sex and commited relationships both have their place. I agree that it's nice to be with someone who really knows you and can share in your joys and sorrows. For now, I still like being single, though I've thought a lot more lately about how nice it would be to have someone to be truly intimate with. while I'm waiting and looking though, I think that if some casual sex should happen to come my way, I probably wouldn't turn it down, as long as the feelings were mutual.
Being single is a great. feeling. some times! but i'm still young. so. yay. so yeah......... i will wait to find someone. but. i'm not lookinany time soon.....
Being single can be okay for a while, but, the novelty wears off pretty quickly for me at least. I don't drink much anymore and am not interested in the bar/club scene. (Unless I'm playing a gig.) There is too much risk though. I mean meeting a stranger and taking them home, or going to their place, I don't know. I can't see myself doing that anymore. You just can't get a good enough take on someone when you're in a loud, crowded environment and one of you, or both of you, are intoxicated. Perhaps sighted people don't have to worry about that quite as much, I don't know. I lost my sight in eighth grade so I don't know what that is like from a sighted perspective. They could steal something, they could be bipolar, they could have an std, etc. There are some nut cases out there, and that goes for either gender. I do have to say that meeting a potential partner in college was much easier than it's been after. It's a totally different dynamic to having your own place and working etc. If you are going to be in a relationship though, be sure you're doing it for the right reasons. If you're with someone just for the sake of being with someone, just settling for something, then yes, of course you're going to be unhappy pretty quickly. I don't buy the whole "I'm so happy because I'm not tied down and I don't have to answer to anybody" arguement. To me, that signifies personal issues that one should perhaps deal with, and instead of dealing with them, they put on a front of sorts. If someone has such a negative view of a relationship in the general sense I mean. Now if someone has been hurt by a specific person, then yeah, you can grow jaded or skeptical about relationships for a time. I've been there myself. If it goes on for too long though, then there are probably underlying factors one should investigate. Both people make a relationship what it is, be that good or bad. It takes some work, but, it can be very rewarding! A relationship in the general sense is neither good or bad. It's your choices and your partner's choices that make it what it is at the end of the day. Finally, openness and communication can go a long way. It's better to discuss something openly as opposed to just keeping it in your mind and snapping sometime down the line.